We have all been on one or both sides of the cheating coin at one point or another in our lives. Whether it is being the one who is doing the cheating on our partners or the one being cheated on. Either way, someone loses and it destroys trust between two people that should have complete trust in each other. It has always been perplexing to men and women alike why, men especially, decide to cheat on their partners with less than attractive women when they have a good looking partner waiting for them with open arms at home. This can actually be explained in a very simple manner.
When a man gets aroused or is in the mood to have sex, they really do not like to have to take the time to challenge themselves with an attractive girl who may or may not want to have sex right then and there in that moment. When it comes to a good looking guy and an unattractive girl, it seems to work out that the girl is most of the time willing to go with the flow of the sexual advances because they themselves do not have that type of opportunity if they actually want it on a regular basis. I know this sounds kind of harsh, but it is the reality of the situation.
So, when men go out looking for someone just to have some casual fun with on the down low, they tend to seek out girls with either low self-esteem or less than stunning looks because they are a more easy and willing target. Either way you look at it, though, cheating is never the right answer. Even if it is to release anxiety or anything like that. Cheating will always cause stress and pain for one or both of the people involved in the situation and there is always a better way of approaching things like that.
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